- What is the hardest part of being a teenager now? What’s the best part? What advice would you give younger siblings or friends (assuming they would listen to you)?
2016; the year of Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter. Teenagers disappear behind the screen of a computer, and girls hide their true self behind layers of makeup; afraid of what others might think. Growing up in this generation, teens strive to impress others. Not wearing certain name brands, or hanging out with the wrong people makes you "lame" or "uncool". In high school, I learned there are fake friends that talk behind your back, or judge everything you do. The hardest part about being a teenager is trying to find out who my true friends are.
I used to think that fitting in and being popular was everything in school. I hung out with the cool kids and kept up with the latest trends. All through elementary and middle school, I had a treasured "friend." As a 6th grader, I found her obnoxious actions funny, and thought popularity meant more than true friendship. She was constantly getting into trouble, but I remained friends with her for years. However, as I got older I found myself getting annoyed with the constant drama she had, as well as her constant need for attention. I drifted to a new group of friends, who cared more about grades and friendship than the need to be cool. My old friend ended up getting into trouble with the law and eventually got suspended multiple times. When I found this out, I felt a rush of relief and sadness. We used to be so close that I actually felt bad for her, but was thankful that I no longer was friends with her. I realized that trying to fit in isn't important because when we graduate; popularity won't matter. It's about getting good grades to get into a good college that will get you a steady job. Most importantly, having the right friends that will stick by your side and always be there.
Now that I found who my true friends are, I realize that at this age we should just enjoy life. The best part about being a teenager is being able to be carefree. I noticed that at this age, I don't have as much responsibilities as an adult. I am able to have fun and enjoy myself because I don't have to pay bills or work a stressful job. Hanging out with friends and family, eating taco bell and going adventuring is the best part of being a teenager. Those late night conversations with friends, soccer games/team bondings, and "charging large" at the beach will always be memories I'll remember.
If I had younger siblings, I would advise them to find good friends that will push you to become a better person. I'd tell them that I'd recommend playing sports because that is where I met my closest friends. I've made most of my friends playing soccer, and they make my life more enjoyable each day. I wake up excited to go to school and practice because having amazing friends is such a joy. When I become an adult, the hard times in high school will be nothing more than a distant afterthought. The good times however, will be something I will always remember. Something I'd wish to relive, a memory that would last forever. 
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